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Cremation
is the reduction of the body by flame. It's not a new idea, although
the machinery is. The machine is called a retort, large and
furnace-like. When turned on, it reaches a temperature of 1800
degrees. The body is placed inside, and within 3 hours is reduced to
small bone fragments. These fragments are then further reduced
through a pulverizing process, to make what remains somewhat more
acceptable to handle. According to our State law, cremation is
considered "final disposition", equal to earthen burial or
mausoleum entombment. What is done with the cremains is up to each
family participating; some options include: burying the cremains in
a cemetery, storing them until the mate passes on and placing them
inside the casket with their mate, scattering cremains, or retaining
them in an urn.
In
years past cremation was selected an alternative to a traditional
funeral. Today cremation is one of the choices included in
traditional funeralization, just as in burial or entombment. Our
families are given the choice of 16 different selections, all
including a viewing of some sort and concluding with cremation.
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When
the choice of "direct cremation" is made, included
in that service is: removal of the remains from the place of
death, sheltering the remains for the mandated 24 hour
period, transportation to the crematory, the cremation
process and the return of the cremains. No other service is
involved. A person sometimes makes this selection for him or
herself because of its simplicity, ease and cost. Although
through our years of experience we have found that `the
funeral is for the living' and those we leave behind must be
able to accept the actions of others usually without input.
When a direct cremation choice is being considered, it
should be discussed with those it is to effect. We must
remember that cremation is irreversible, we cannot go back.
If all family members are in agreement then direct cremation
is the correct selection. But if we have dissenting members
we must not cause them irreparable psychological damage. A
compromise is usually reached by including a viewing of some
sort and a funeral service prior to the cremation (see
article on the value of a viewing elsewhere in this site).
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